The Most Wonderful ‘YES’ I Have Ever Heard

23 juillet 2010 | 14 Comments » | Barryck R.
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She said Yes in the train. On the way to Fes (Morocco). Don’t ask me why I proposed, Well it’s obvious, I proposed because I want to grow old next her. I can’t see myself anymore without her in my life. She brightens my life. (Am I too romantic right now?).

I am sitting in front her now in the train as am writing this post. I read many posts about how to propose, the best ways to ask, 1000 formula to say when proposing, How to push her to say yes, yeah and even how to flirt. Believe me none of all that helped me. Because I proposed in the train, no ring in the pocket, no tuxedo, and no violinists around us but I went on my knees. Come On!! You might say. But she said the most beautiful “YES” I have ever heard in my life.

How I did that? Easy folks:

Instinct: Let your instinct Guide you. As long as you love the one sitting in front of you, and you feel ready to take the responsibility to annoy her/him all your life, let the words do their magical work.

Moment: Let your feelings guide you all the way. If you think it’s the best moment, just do it. We were talking about my Ex girlfriends when I jumped on the « Would you marry me? » (hum hum). So the best moment is the one you feel like there is a burst in your heart and the words are explaining what you feel inside!

Words: Don’t think about being Shakespeare’s Romeo or even Juliet, you won’t have the best words coming out of your mind by a snap of a hand. Just let the words come alone. Don’t you try to learn by heart what you would be saying. All these “magical” words you can find in the Web won’t help you but destabilize you.

Be you…Just be yourself: You entered in this love relationship by promising to be you as often as possible. You tried to be you because you wanted to show her what is the real YOU right? And she loved you. She loved YOU, so why not being YOU in this tremendously important Moment! Be you, Be you, Be YOU.

« No worries I didn’t propose in this train though! »

Thank you @Glitterglitzer for helping me with this post.

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